Although it is past the usual New Year’s resolution timeframe, and people’s resolutions are likely forgotten by now, I’ve been thinking about what makes a good life. Each of my books includes recipes of food that the characters have eaten.
. . . Which led me to think about what makes a person’s successful life. I hope it reminds you of what you intend for your life’s plan!
Ingredients:
Water, for proper hydration
Air, as clean as possible
Food, in sufficient quantity, nutritional value, and good tasting
Sleep, to rest and keep your body functional
Shelter, to provide the above and adaptable as changes occur
Joy, to provide spice in life
Happiness, to create your best approach to the world
Patience, for reaching goals and dealing with others
Understanding, to work well with others and to learn
Success, in whatever way you define it
Love, to sustain you, for others and yourself
Friendship, to provide mutual companionship
Family, as available
Resources, to help yourself and others – (Resources include funds, money, skills,
and other tangible and intangible items that help you achieve what you need.)
Note: Quantities are flexible
What you need:
Comfort
Education
Motivation
Curiosity
Flexibility/Adaptability
Inspiration
Goals
Time
Directions:
Start with the first four ingredients, then add the others as needed, until you reach a sense of your life’s plan. Mix in the friendships and family. Cultivate and apply “what you need” to provide the best life you can create.
Change directions as needed. Remember to do something positive for yourself and others every day.
Serves: one person and everyone they know
Enjoy!
Note: Somewhat inspired by Maslow’s Hierarchy of Need
I hope this list provides everyone with a sense of satisfaction. Is there anything you’d add to the list?
Coming soon!
Love at First Sight, the story of how Louisa’s parents met in college and started life together. Definitely for mature audiences, a steamy romance novel.
PS If you’re an aspiring romance writer and want to challenge yourself, write 6,000-10,000 words for a short story by June 1st. No fee to submit your edited and polished short story for the “Here Come the Brides” contest. For more information: contest.janerohde.com
Warmest regards,
Shelley Sommers
Romance Author
shelley@shelleysommers.com
www.shelleysommers.com